Each day has had its moment. And some days had more than others.
For example, today I had the company of a playful greyhound who approached me on its morning walk.
Yet, what about those moments that are not as "wonderful" to have to experience? I find I immediately ask myself to acknowledge the moment and assess what makes it not wonderful (i.e. uncomfortable, difficult, painful, anxiety-provoking). Once aware of the source of my discomfort, I address it. If it is myself being unreasonable (e.g., over-thinking), I nudge myself to stop. If it the actions of another that makes me feel so, I ask myself if I should address it to the attention of the person responsible - taking note of who this individual happens to be. On the other hand, it might require that I nudge myself to accept a more realistic assessment of the situation (and the person) rather then conclude using the one provided to me by my fears/anxieties. And, should it be something outside of my control, I nudge myself to shrug it off. Nudges... are important because this is after all starting as a practice, and it takes time before a practice becomes second nature.
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